The first date with "John" went great. We had a nice dinner with good conversation. We made arrangements to see each other a few days later. That was cool with me. Well at least until a couple days later when my phone was being blown up with text messages and calls. Ok now, I do have a life.  One night we were talking and he kept going on about how he missed me and thought about me all day long.I thought it was kind of soon for him to start thinking that way, considering we only went out once. The icing on the cake was when he asked if I was ready to take care of his child. WHAT?  "I am not even sure if I like you, and you want me to what?"

Ok, ladies I hope you see this as a red flag. After the first date, no man should be even assuming that you are that serious or will be. Guys, take this advice from a woman, If you want that second date, don't scare her off by getting so serious. You are not going to win us over by making us an instant mommy. 

Ok, after the second bad first date in the past couple of weeks I figured I could share some stories for other singles out there. I hope I can help other women who are looking for mister right or teach single men what not to do if they want a second date. I will be blogging my experiences as they happen. Names will be changed to protect everyone's privacy. Please apply what you can to your own dating experience and enjoy a good laugh out of my bad experiences.